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Decide How to Decide Before You Decide

By Will Bledsoe, Ph.D. (2026) 

In family businesses and workplaces, the decision is rarely what blows the room apart. The decision is the occasion. What walks in with it is older: who was heard last time, who was overruled, who still feels a slight no one has named in years. A hiring question, a su...

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The 7 R’s of Conscientious Communication© and Restorative Social Media

By Will Bledsoe, Ph.D. (2026)

Restorative social media, grounded in restorative communication, treats social media platforms as spaces for relationship health, dignity, accountability, civility, and repair rather than amplification of contempt, retribution, or zero-sum conflict.

When clients reach...

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S.H.I.F.T. - Why Connection Restores Safety When Anxiety and Trauma Take Over

 By Will Bledsoe, Ph.D. (2026)

 "When Someone Is Overwhelmed by Anxiety or Traumatic Stress, Connection Beats Advice"

The S.H.I.F.T. technique is an “in the moment” trauma-responsive communication technique designed to support someone in the grip of anxiety, distress, or traumatic stress. It draws...

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Restorative Communication as Civil Discourse

By Will Bledsoe, Ph.D. (2026)

Restorative communication is a specialized, intentional form of civil discourse that prioritizes repairing relationships, addressing harm, and rebuilding mutual respect through structured, ethical dialogue.

     Civil discourse generally refers to respectful, construc...

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Restorative Communication as Democratic Discourse

By Will Bledsoe, Ph.D. (2026)

     Like so many, I’m worried that the political discourse/rhetoric currently happening in the public sphere poses a threat not only to democracy, but the future wellbeing of our children and our planet. The caustic tenor, ignore-ance of facts, labelling, verbal assau...

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Retributive Rhetoric and Restorative Communication

By Will Bledsoe, Ph.D. © 2026

“How can restorative communication be an antidote to the current caustic tenor of political rhetoric?”

     This is a question that I’ve been consistently asked since 2020. It’s a question that requires some careful thought and explanation. 

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Restorative Divorce: When Ending a Marriage Becomes an Opportunity to Mend What Matters Most

By Will Bledsoe, Ph.D. (2026)

Divorce is often framed as failure—the final verdict in a contest of blame, loss, and irreversible rupture. In the dominant cultural narrative, it is adversarial by design: two sides, winners and losers, lawyers as combatants, children as collateral. The process itself...

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Two Narratives

 By Will Bledsoe Ph.D. (2026)

From: The Restorative Way: Harnessing the Power of Restorative Communication to Mend Relationships, Heal Trauma, and Reclaim Civility One Conversation at a Time (Bledsoe, 2024).

[Note: One of the consequences of working in the field of restorative practices (i.e., jus...

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Restorative School Discipline: It’s About Engagement, Not Enforcement

 By William A. Bledsoe Ph.D. (2019) Connections Quarterly: Winter 2019 - Vol. XXXIX - Issue 2 Center for Spiritual and Ethical Education  

  “Students do well if they can, not because they’re forced to.”

    In the last 10 to 15 years schools have begun to pursue restorative approaches to student ...

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Restorative Parenting: It’s Just Common Sense

From: The Restorative Way: Harnessing the Power of Restorative Communication to Mend Relationships, Heal Trauma, and Reclaim Civility One Conversation at a Time (Bledsoe, 2024)

      I didn’t realize it until decades later but my first experience with restorative justice happened when I was nine ye...

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Family Business Conflict: It’s about Reconciliation

 By: Dr. Will Bledsoe © 2018, Founder of Restorative Way

Conflict is inevitable. It’s part of being human and it's an inherent part of belonging to a group with emotional connections.

     But when family members share a business or wealth enterprise, the stakes are significantly higher. Confl...

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An Interview with “Dr. B.” - Part Two

Part Two

Michael T., May 2026

Q: Your work often highlights trauma-responsive elements. How does Restorative Way help people navigate traumatic stress while still holding space for accountability and reintegration? 

So there are really two questions you’re asking. First, how does RWay help peopl...

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An Interview with “Dr. B.” - Part One

Part One

Michael T., April 2026

 

Q: Your students and clients call you Dr. B. Okay if I do that?

That's fine. It’s easier to remember. “Bledsoe” isn’t a very common name. 

 Q: I have to ask because I Googled you. Are you the same Will Bledsoe that was an actor?

Yes.  

Q: Why did you leave a...

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Conflict in Family Businesses

By: David Bork, Family Business Matters (2016)

Every family experiences conflict. It’s a fact of family life. Families who take the time to learn about the dynamics of conflict and how to either keep it from becoming destructive when it happens, or develop conflict resolution skills to address it w...

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A Tale from a Teacher’s Heart

© 2021 Will Bledsoe, Ph.D.

I couldn’t wait to teach my first college class. I knew in the depth of my being that I was born to teach. My brother was a teacher. My sister was a teacher. My sister-in-law was a teacher. Both my grandparents were teachers. My uncle and aunt were teachers and so were my...

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From Trauma-Informed to Trauma-Responsive

 By: Will Bledsoe, Ph.D. (2018)

Given the massive shifts and new knowledge generated in the fields of trauma, the brain, and neuroscience, there is an expanding recognition in a variety of contexts that a trauma-informed approach to working with people is an essential part of effective policy, prac...

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Retaliation, or Restorative Accountability?

By: Will Bledsoe, Ph.D. (2016, 2026)

There is something deeper, existing underneath the impulse to retaliate. There is a deeper instinct of justice that is at once ancient, yet more evolved. I believe that restoration, the restorative instinct, is part of our DNA. Restoration, perhaps, is our speci...

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Do you want to be right or happy?

By: Will Bledsoe, Ph.D. (2021, 2026)

I have two clients (“Jack” and “Cheryl”) who are married to each other and have radically different opinions on just about everything: vaccines, COVID-19; immigration; politics; and the future of this country. They’ve been married for over 15 years.

Cheryl expl...

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